Comments on: Dee’s Funeral http://kittywitchin.com/2008/07/30/dees-funeral/ Fun, fashion and frolics in Second Life! Thu, 19 Jan 2012 10:06:06 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Katie http://kittywitchin.com/2008/07/30/dees-funeral/#comment-533 Thu, 31 Jul 2008 20:34:36 +0000 http://kittywitch.wordpress.com/?p=714#comment-533 Hi Kitty

I read your messages on the bcpals forum.

I just wanted to say I am so sorry you lost such a fantastic friend at such a young age.
I hope that you can live your life the way she would want you to and remember all the happy memories you shared together. You sound like you were a true friend for her.
I am only 33 and lost my big sister last year age 35 to breast cancer and she had it for only 18 months before she died! Similar story and she too was the most amazing, brave and most inspirational lady I have ever had the pleasure of knowing!
If it wasn’t for her I wouldn’t have had genetic testing and would probably have died young too! Thankfully I found out and took the necessary actionand so hopefully fingers crossed I will live a long happy life!!!
Your lovely friend has made me 100% sure that I have done the right thing to prevent this cruel disease!

My sister was a larger than life character and was always the life and soul of the party. I reckon she will be there in heaven with Dee drinking lots of alcohol and causing a riot!!

Here is a cyber toast to them!! cheers!

Please take care of yourself

lots of love

Katie xxxx
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]]> By: Bailey Longcloth http://kittywitchin.com/2008/07/30/dees-funeral/#comment-532 Thu, 31 Jul 2008 11:45:27 +0000 http://kittywitch.wordpress.com/?p=714#comment-532 Kitty the service sounds like is was beautiful. I’m quite sure Dee was looking down on you all and smiling.

The poem was absolutely wonderful, beautiful and moving. Dee was a special lady and will be missed but her spirit is a lesson to all of us.

HUGE hugs honey. Love ya much

BL

]]> By: Kitty http://kittywitchin.com/2008/07/30/dees-funeral/#comment-531 Thu, 31 Jul 2008 07:12:30 +0000 http://kittywitch.wordpress.com/?p=714#comment-531 Thanks for all your Kind words-Ari, the very fact that you tried to be there would have meant the world to Dee. Don’t feel bad petal, I know that you would’ve liked to be there and she would understandX
Bee- I’d love to meet up with you in world, and I actually got an e-mail from Moyra, the celebrant, saying how mortified she was for getting Dee’s mum’s name wrong twice..she said she’d tried so hard to be mindful of teh fact that Madelaine couldn’t be there and has no idea why that happened..just one of those things I guess. The rest of it was very nice thogh-especially the basket of flowers and cones to throw into the grave…Dee would’ve loved that.
Cyber..love ya too babes:)

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]]> By: Remi http://kittywitchin.com/2008/07/30/dees-funeral/#comment-530 Thu, 31 Jul 2008 04:47:25 +0000 http://kittywitch.wordpress.com/?p=714#comment-530 Awesome story!!

]]> By: Aribeth Coronet http://kittywitchin.com/2008/07/30/dees-funeral/#comment-529 Wed, 30 Jul 2008 23:37:34 +0000 http://kittywitch.wordpress.com/?p=714#comment-529 I feel absolutely wretched that in the end I couldn’t make the service, however it was out of my control and although I wasn’t there in person I was definately there in thought.

You are an amazing person, and so strong. I cannot even begin to imagine the pain you’re going through right now but I know that with plenty of hugs and time, it will get better.

The service sounds beautiful, and I’m sure Dee would’ve been smiling down at what a lovely send off you gave her. xx

]]> By: cyberpink http://kittywitchin.com/2008/07/30/dees-funeral/#comment-528 Wed, 30 Jul 2008 20:28:38 +0000 http://kittywitch.wordpress.com/?p=714#comment-528 Love ya hun xXx

]]> By: beemizser http://kittywitchin.com/2008/07/30/dees-funeral/#comment-527 Wed, 30 Jul 2008 18:58:09 +0000 http://kittywitch.wordpress.com/?p=714#comment-527 Hello Kitty,

I was there at the funeral, representing the MG forum you mentioned, and was half wanting to say hello and thank you. Your words were straight form the heart and were very moving.

The service was perfect apart from one repeated mistake that was made. And your words allowed me to say my goodbyes to Dee, as they truely represented who she was, and yes like you I was angry. Like you I lost a bloody good friend. No more the mad MSN chats we used to have as a group (Dee’s MG friends – They aren’t the same now), no more mad trips to Scotland, Dee’s memory will live on. All who knew her will never forget her, but it’s still not the same.

Thank you again and if I bump into you in-world (doubtful as SL is mahoosive – but I seem to recall you were at the cenotaph last year). then you are welcome to a hug.

Bee (aka Chris, cj, cjmillsnun – Depending on where you know me from)

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