Berry’s Weird Question Meme (Avatar Blogger Crossfit Challenge (Entry 14 of 30))

Berry’s Weird Question Meme (Avatar Blogger Crossfit Challenge (Entry 14 of 30))

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Time for yet another meme challenge from Strawberry Singh! I enjoyed this one, VERY much:)

  1. What was the last sim you visited? (Other than your home)Truth (for the hairstyle above)
  2. Does your avatar look like the real you? No. In real life (click and be scarred forever!) I have really long hair that is in dire need of a trim, but I hate having my hair cut. Kitty has her hair in a bob/variations on a bob theme, which is how I would wear my hair if I ever had it cut, but seeing as I’m developing multiple chins it really won’t be flattering to do that. The only similarities between  the real me and Kitty are that we’re both quite pale. She’s a lovely looking thing actually. Cow.
  3. Do you wear underwear/panties underneath your clothing when out and about on the grid? Actually, I’ve recently started doing this, usually because Amanda Shinji will point out that she can see my clunge when we’re sat talking on the sofa. She’s not getting any cheap thrills off me, so pants from now on are the way forward!
  4. If you won a million linden dollars, what would be the first thing you buy inworld? A sim, or a couple of sims.  I’d buy a sim for Amanda, and pay rent on it forever, so she could do whatever the heck she wanted (I’m thinking race track here, natch!) My sim would just be my dream come true; I would have it designed and landscaped by the best people on the grid and my house would be furnished top to bottom in furniture from all my favourite designers. In fact, there’d probably be more than one house on the sim decorated in different styles. I’d have a place for Dad too, decorated in his favourite way.  I’d have a dock and a sailing area, and a space for parties, and quite frankly it would be smegging awesome. I’d open it up for parties and heck, I may even have a pub on the corner of the sim! Look, I’ve thought about this often (can you tell?) and my own sim and limitless prims would be a dream come true for me. Oh if only! <Chuckle>
  5. Have you ever bought something in SL and then realized afterwards that you had already owned it from before? Yes, sadly many times. I have a bit of a troll brain and I forget so quickly that I have things. Also my inventory is a mess, and it’s always a bit sticky-I’ve often bought things and checked beforehand, only to find that actually I did have them already. My inventory really does hate me to be honest. I think the items I’ve bought duplicates of most of all are hair and poses, but hey, more money for the maker right?
  6. Have you ever done anything in Second Life that would be considered illegal in real life? I doubt it very much, but if I did it was unintentional…and that’s my excuse and I stand by it M’lud!
  7. If you could go out on a date with any other avatar, who would it be? Hmmm, interesting question. I’ve always wanted to see Prad Pravithi naked, so..
  8. Who, in your opinion, was the greatest avatar to ever slive? Deedee Fadoodle.
  9. What is the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever done inworld? I rezzed into someone’s house once when they were having really dirty avatar sex. I noped very quickly out of there, let me tell you!
  10. If your avatar had a mind of its own, what do you think it would say to you? “I am NOT WEARING THAT! Are you mad?!”
Avatar Blogger Crossfit Challenge Ahoy! (Entry 1 of 30, GULP!)

Avatar Blogger Crossfit Challenge Ahoy! (Entry 1 of 30, GULP!)

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(Avatar Kitty UNFIT Challenge would be more appropriate, but still…)

I’ve signed up to the ‘Avatar Blogger Crossfit Challenge’ for the month of June.

Already I’m 4 days behind so I’m playing catch-up in earnest! (Deep breaths, slow and easy, will post some more today to make up..)  This is a blogging challenge that should see a contribution to Kittywitchin every day. Normally I update about three times a week, so this will be tough, but it  help me see if I can maintain a more regular daily blog schedule.

I’ve been assigned my very own area, with a treadmill (HAH! Me on a treadmill, the thought!) and a desk so I can post as I work out..I guess this is the crossfit bit huh?

I feel a little out of my comfort zone which is precisely why I signed up for the challenge!

Vaneesa Blaylock was really encouraging, and when I stressed a little about what was required of me, she responded with these pearls of wisdom..”The only goals that are truly worth achieving are the ones you set for yourself, so I’d encourage everyone not to stress on the details of Avatar Blogger Crossfit challenge month, and instead to use it to move your personal “high jump bar” a little higher. Try writing longer. Try writing shorter. Try posting faster. Try editing more. Try editing less. It doesn’t matter where everyone else’s bar is set, some will always be higher or lower than yours. I’ll never be able to move like Lisa De Vanna, and at least so far in this life I’m lucky to be more mobile than Stephen Hawking. For me, the ultimate goal of ABC is to take wherever your bar is, and move it a little bit higher. And to really enjoy the month – it’ll be over before you know it! “

Sound advise that I will be following. To that end, I had a think about what Vaneeesa meant. Well, my blog is always about longer blog-posts, and that’s not something I’m willing to compromise on by writing short posts that don’t convey the message that I want to get across. Having said that, I tend to waffle. (Something you’ve probably noticed)

So my goal for the Avatar Blogger Crossfit Challenge is to blog *smarter*.

Here is a list of the bloggers taking part.  As you can see I’m in GREAT company, and remember we’re posting every day so there’s going to be LOTS for you to read!

1. BACON SPAM
flickr.com/photos/sillyblog

2. ALEX AND HERO 
alexandhero.wordpress.com

3. RAVALATION
ravalation.blogspot.com

4. LIVING IN A MODEMWORLD
modemworld.wordpress.com

5. STRAWBERRY SINGH.com
strawberrysingh.com

6. PAYPABAK WRITER 
paywriter.tumblr.com

7. A COZEY SECOND LIFE 
cozeyinsl.wordpress.com

8. STUFFERY 
stuffery.crashthemode.net

9. PICS BY PEEP 
picsbypeep.com

10. CHAOTIC VIRTUALITY 
chaoticvirtuality.com

11. A SECOND FOR IMAGINATION 
secondimagination.wordpress.com

12. KITTYWITCHIN’ 
kittywitchin.com

13. BEHIND THESE EMERALD EYES 
behindemerald.wordpress.com

14. DARK PHANTOM 
aaryaphantomhive.blogspot.com

15. CONFESSIONS OF A FIRST-TIME PAGEANT MODEL 
pageantconfessions.wordpress.com

16. VIXXIE’S VIRTUAL LIFE
virtualvix.wordpress.com

17. SQUIRREL SEEKING CHIPMUNK
eailineen.tumblr.com

18. SONGS FROM THE COALFACE
canarybeck.com

19. MODELESQUE 2 LIFE
modelesque2life.wordpress.com

20. HEY, IT JUST ME
nievethor.wordpress.com

21. DEFINING MOMENTS
definingmomentssl.blogspot.com

22. THE LEAGUE OF EXTRAORDINARY FASHIONISTAS
leagueofextraordinaryfashionistas.wordpress.com

23. LIZZIE GUDKOV It Takes a Village
irez.me/author/lizziegudkov

Berry’s Blog Challenge: My Three SL Wishes

Berry’s Blog Challenge: My Three SL Wishes

I am SO behind on the memes, but I’m trying to catch up, even though I’ll have to write one of my entries from scratch all over again after I omitted to save it. (How I managed to do that I have no idea, but hey, this is me, right?)

It’s very hard to think of just three Second Life wishes, and whilst I was compiling this list I thought of lots more (for example, I wish that land was cheaper) but I’m happy to stick with the three that I’ve published here for your reading pleasure.

So here, dear reader are my three Second Life wishes. (You can read more wishes at Berry’s blog by clicking here)

1. I Wish I Had More Linden Dollars!

Even though I work in real life (yes, there is such a thing!)  I never have enough Lindens in my pocket to buy the stuff I’d like. I get envious on Plurk sometimes when I see the gorgeous new releases and shopping sprees that my Second Life chums  have treated themselves to, but it’s a fleeting thing.  I can (and do) spoil myself on occasion, and I do that with gusto,  but I do wish I had a dedicated and steady virtual income to support my in-world lifestyle.

The fact is shopping sprees in Second Life are actually a lot more fun for me than in real life. Even though the object isn’t physically real I STILL get so much satisfaction from it, be it an article of furniture, a glorious dress, or a sumptuous skin. Also I know that the money I have spent is going straight back to the creator which means that I am supporting them directly. I also know that should I have a quibble I can go right to them and advise them of my problem. (Think about it; that’s the equivalent of speaking to a CEO in real life!)

Here’s an example: Let’s say you bought an Armani dress in real life that you weren’t happy with, you couldn’t march straight up the ladder and speak to Giorgio himself and demand satisfaction, but In Second Life you can. I think the interaction between designers and their customers is what makes the virtual retail market so vibrant, and that’s one of the reasons why I am so keen to support it.

I’m quite materialistic in the virtual world, yet in real life I’m not at all. I shop frugally and love a good bargain.  For me a fabulous real life treat is a meal out or a trip to the cinema; it’s most certainly not the latest frock or pair Laboutin heels. But that role is reversed in Second Life. Stick Kitty in front of a pair of GOS shoes and she’ll be speaking gibberish for the rest of the week!

I have considered making and retailing things as a way of acquiring more spends, but quite honestly there are far better content creators out there than myself, so why would I want to even compete with them when I could be buying from them instead? Still, it’s an option I’m considering.

2. I Wish That Second Life Didn’t Have A Seedy Reputation

You know, for such a vibrant virtual community we do have one hell of a reputation for being something that we’re not.  It’s often the case that when you mention Second Life to people they respond with disdain. This is because of the image that has been portrayed so often in the media, something I have actually spoken about on local and national radio.

I’ve never been ashamed about my participation in Second Life.

I’m actually very proud of it, so I always make sure that in conversation I paint it in a positive light. There is so much good that comes out of being in-world. It allows for creativity to flourish in so many ways, not just in the building of the environments but in the artifacts to furnish them.  From vehicles to transverse the metaverse, to the outfits to sport while doing that, everything has been created by a fellow user. That’s some achievement when you consider it.  There are musicians performing concerts, authors and social commentators hosting discussions, role-players and historical enthusiasts recreating antiquity. Then you have the different sub-cultures in world.

There is so much depth to our virtual existence and Second Life has become a brilliant, vibrant tapestry of virtual culture at its very best, and yet all the media want to focus upon is sex?

I really do think Linden lab should be more supportive to an image change in the mass media. they need more positive promotion. To that end, they should employ people like Draxtor Despres, who is doing them a huge service with his video series  ‘The Drax Files’ which displays Second Life in the best possible light. If I was a Linden I would be shaking Drax by the hand and thanking him for the work he’s doing, because it’s the best kind of publicity produced by someone who clearly has a passion for the subject.

I was browsing Reddit the other day ( I love Reddit)  and came across a post which was really quite negative about Second Life. The responses to the thread were pretty negative too, with one person even saying “People still play that?” I’ll be honest and say that it upset me to read the comments, but I am actually glad that I did. Because these kinds of comments are written by people who have never bothered to experience our vibrant virtual world for themselves, choosing instead to focus on what the media has written  and dismiss it based on shoddy reporting. More fool them I say.

I honestly feel that we’re on the cusp of something big with Second Life, and as it approaches it’s landmark birthday of ten years  I  confidently think we’re going to see our world regain some of the reputation it los and rise in popularity again. I’m so happy, and honoured to be a resident and would love other people to have the same positive experience that I do.

Second Life is a part of me now, I can’t imagine living my first life without it!

3. I Wish The Inventory Were Easier To Manage

Because it can be an utter pig when it wants to be! I’d love there to be some sort of automatic sorting facility, whereby it highlights all the duplicate items that you own. (I’m pretty sure that at least 30% of my items are dupes, if not more) I’d like it to have folders that are easier to manage and most of all I’d like it to load faster! I’d love to be able to click a button and it sort by Copy, Mod and Trans. Can you imagine? Think of the yard-sales I could have if I could just find all my old and unloved trans items that I know are gathering dust in deep, dark corners .

Compared to some people I have a very low inventory volume of just 45k and yet it takes an absolute age to load. It also lies to me; there are many times I’ve thought that I have lost an item, only to find it by changing the search terms from the obvious to the surreal. My inventory really does have a life of its own sometimes and it can be extremely frustrating. That said, it’s always a joy when I’m having a mooch through the contents and I find something I had forgotten about, usually because of some insane naming convention.

I don’t think there are any easy answers to inventory issues and I honestly think that you have to start as you mean to go on, and keep it in check from the get go. I fear sorting through the thousands of items in there will make me go insane, but I do try to have a tidy-up every so often.

And then I get distracted by something shiny, and end up replacing my deleted items with more lovelies..GAH!

Another SL Meme: Pet Peeves

Another SL Meme: Pet Peeves

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Darn you Strawberry Singh and your epic Second Life memes! I jest of course, but Berry’s latest meme asks a very valid point, what really winds you up about the virtual world we call home?

I have to be honest, this wasn’t an easy meme to respond to.

I was worried I’d put a few noses out of joint, so I have tried to be gentle. I’ve also not included all of my peeves, as some need to be kept closer to home. But it certainly got me thinking, so thanks again Berry! (I wonder what she’ll come up with next?!)

  1. RUDENESS.  Yes I get Second Life is a virtual environment, but that doesn’t mean that you leave your manners at the loading screen. If you’re ill-mannered in real life I’ll think you’re an asshole. If you’re ill-mannered in Second Life I’ll think you’re a special kind of asshole. It takes a certain kind of individual to sit behind their keyboard and type something mean or just plain-rude to someone in a virtual environment.
  2. ANTLERS. I’ve had just about enough of seeing antlers everywhere in Second Life.  Don’t get me wrong, I have seen some absolutely amazing clothing featuring deer motifs, and I’ve also seen some equally amazing jewellery featuring it too. I’ve also seen some fabulous antler chairs, antler light fittings, in fact antler home furnishings galore! I mean, what’s next, an antler toilet brush? It’s like a never-ending weekend at Ted Nugent’s house!  If you’re role-playing, I get the need for antlers. If not, just please cease and desist before you drive me into full-on Fenton mode.  Before you know it we’ll all be going moustache mad, how ludicrous would that be?  Oh, wait, that’s already happened..
  3. GROUP NOTICES:if you send them, PLEASE for the love of all-that-is-holy, SPELL CHECK them and if English isn’t your best language then please get someone who speaks it to proof-read for you before you send out. I do actually pay attention to group notices, and they often  tempt me to go and investigate offers and items. But if you issue them exclaiming things like; ‘Plz check this now!’ without a LM, or something like ‘Hurry! This price won’t last forever’ I will just delete. Pro-tip: Notices should stand out, because they need to attract customers. They require a punchy yet informative title to draw your customer in to opening them and reading them. Therefore be original, be witty, be playful but most of all be bothered to actually tell me what you’re sending the notice out about!  Sell me the product that you’re advertising and include a picture or I just won’t bother to read any further.  So many people out there must make wonderful creations that I never get to see because their notices are written so shabbily, so just don’t. If you’ve taken care over your creation, take care over your advertising too!
  4. SOCIALISM. Well, actually no, that’s not the pet peeve, but THIS is:

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There are so many furniture builds featuring this particular set of books that you would think we’re all political nerds in Second Life. Obviously the majority of us aren’t,  but I bet we all have these books on our shelves! I bet if you search your inventory you’ll find furniture featuring them. It’s not just the lesser known creators that have used these either, some of the uber-established furniture making names have featured them on multiple occasions and it just drives me to utter distraction. I’ve seen carefully constructed furniture utterly ruined by adding these bloody books.  If you’ve taken the time and care to develop and build a fantastic, original item then why ruin it by including something that can be seen a myriad of other places on the grid?! The mind boggles. Please stop!

5. BAD DESIGN: OK, this is quite a broad-ranging response, so let me try and clarify it a little bit.  I’m talking about ugly, cheap textures deployed upon builds. Build shapes that look dated and six years past their prime. Skins with no depth or shading upon them, and the worst thing, clothing, especially gowns and skirts, made with those cone-shaped prims that  legs tend to stick out of in a manner worse than Angelina Jolie at an awards ceremony. Please don’t misunderstand;  I don’t want to come over holier than thou on this and I realise that taste is a very personal thing, but I find it hard to believe that with so much design inspiration to be found on the grid people still create what is, quite frankly utter garbage. What boggles the mind even more is that occasionally they expect to sell it….WTF?!

Peeved Kitty wears: